After a Pregnant Pause, Back at the Swingers Club My wife Susan and I used to be into swinging, but that was before she had the first baby followed quickly by a second. Sex became one of those on-demand things for us. By the time that our youngest reached two we could feel the strain start to really take a hold on our marriage. Finally it was Sue who said maybe we ought to leave the kids at the grandparents for a weekend and go back to the swingers club. I could feel myself start to rise to the occasion as I made the call.